This is 2016, women are transforming slowly into a better version of themselves. They are becoming more confident, independent, strong and intelligent. However, it seems that many women are still refrains because their families do not share the same dreams. This does not seem to enter the picture of feminism today.
I will not make a secret of my boyfriend does not like to travel. Or, well, do not like "looks great in this context. He just very other priorities for spending money. Should I break? Uhm, no. Considering that we have been in a relationship for almost five years, living together, bought a dog together - and simply love each other, I do not see it as an option. Do I have to travel? Ehm, definitely not an option. That would just make me miserable. Should I go? Is that even a question? Of course, I should go!
For me, this question was answered easily. In fact, it was never a question that arose in my mind. However, the more I travel the more I meet people on the road (and the readers that I get questions on solo trips) I noticed how travel without your partner is apparently not the most common thing to do. In fact, many other travelers wonder 'if my boyfriend allows me to travel without him. ". Ehm, yes? I do not want her permission thank you very much. They ask him the same question: "Why do you let your girlfriend to travel alone? You are crazy.
We both get so many questions, but also comments about our turbulent relationship that I decided to devote an article about it. I wanted to share my story of traveling without my partner - who does not like to travel and how to deal with it. Because believe me. I know a thing or two about it
Opposites attract
I always had restless feet. I wanted to see the world and I would make a priority out of it. I save a large amount of my income to travel and I miss a lot of experience at home because I spend a lot better my money on travel instead of alcohol, a designer bag or a concert ticket . He even got to the point that I begin to doubt whether or not I should buy that top € 15.00 because for me € 15.00 equals one ticket (Ryan Air style) in Dublin. It suffices to say. I know, I exaggerate slightly ... My little friend the other hand, has his own hobbies. His hobby is probably more expensive than the travel (motocross) and given its current position in the European Championships he gives his all and national - money, time and energy wise. It saves money as well as I. It saves for whole different reasons. Besides that my boyfriend was probably one of the most of the busiest and heaviest jobs worldwide, which means that very few days a year to travel. Shortly said, it was not the money and the time to travel
I guess you can say we have one thing in common :. We both have dreams that we hunt. Next to that? Not much. Opposites attract, I guess.
Travelling without your partner
As I said before, for me it does was never really a question of whether or not I should go if he did not go with me. I basically book my flights and travel before letting know. I want to fly away and I will. I do not want anyone's permission and I did not ask permission. I really do not know why people ask me if I'm allowed to travel without my boyfriend. We never signed a contract
I do not know why I should not travel without him and I do not see how it could not be any motocross -. Who believe in me takes much more time than traveling on a regular basis. We both have our dreams and we both do not have to abandon them. Otherwise, what would our relationship look like? It would probably be in a week or two because we'd both be miserable. - Not being able to do what we love
Let my boyfriend does not like to travel does not mean that we are not right for each other. I love coming home to tell her my stories and listening to his. We learn from each other because of our different lives completely. Just take it from me: you do not need to have everything in common. How boring would that be?
missing your partner
Of course, I miss when I travel. And it's never easy to say goodbye when you're standing in front of the airport. I'm not a big fan of departure, not a big fan of saying goodbye. However, once I walk through the airport and take my place in the plan all is forgotten: from the moment I am in my element. I'm where I belong. I do what I love. I am happy. Heck, I do not even want to come back home
My boyfriend is a big fan of seeing me leave -. Thinking about the risks of a young woman alone in a foreign country. It gets better though. He does not mind traveling across Europe alone anymore because he saw me leave and go home so many times now.
Voyager only in Vietnam was a completely different landscape, however. He hated me for booking a ticket, but respected my decision, because he knew it would make me happy. He was afraid for me. I would be alone for three weeks across the world. At the same time, he trusted me - and I trust myself enough not to end up dead in an alley
I I'm used to miss him. long ago. I got used to being apart a lot. lacks for me no longer qualify as a good reason not to travel. If there is one thing I learned from that point aside, it is that makes your relationship stronger. Whenever you spot the other at the airport after spending some time outside, you'll fall in love again.
Hopefully, you and your partner will be stuck with each other for the rest of your lives. So much time to get comfortable on the couch. Traveling is something you can do better when you are young. And you only live once.
Is not it get frustrating?
Of course, there are many days I try to persuade my boyfriend in booking travel with me. There are many days during the trip I would have liked my boyfriend standing next to me. However, I like to travel solo and I love the adventure of being alone in a foreign country. Most of all I like to sleep in hostels - chat all night with people from all over the world. And be honest: this is not how your trips look like when traveling with your partner. So it gets frustrating? Sometimes. But my trips are always the best times of my life and I mean when I say I would not change a minute of trips I have taken.
There are a couple of trips I am saving for me and my boyfriend. I want to do a hiking trip (I know my boyfriend would like), a tour through Morocco and a road trip with the engine of my boyfriend. We're just so young, so I know we will eventually make these trips. Until then, I am happy to travel the world alone and therefore you should
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